mogul
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2011-10-11 22-28-08
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Agree With Post Above You don't know if he's legit and will not if you've not met him. Talking ln the net so much is a bad idea and a fantasy. If you think he's worth seeing, just set up to meet at a safe place and get to know him. If you think he's worth seeing again, ask him if that's his real name and why he doesn;'t show up anywhere. If a man has a problem with a woman checking up on him, he's no good. If he gave you s fake name, I'd be wary, but still OK with it. Be CAREFUL. Do not gave any specific information about you where someone can find you until you now his and feel OK with him. If you start to spend time with him and like him, he'd better feel very up fron with you knowing where he lives, works, came from etc., or big red flag. At this point, showing up on a search is pointless. Meet him, and then see what you want to do. And from someone who has done a lot of internet dating, stop talking on the net withoutn meeting. It can be "fun," but it's not realistic and not likely to take you anywhere healthy if you've not met. There are definately a lot of good men on cl, but a lot of weird, scary ones. I ran into one who was a really creepy, aggressive abuser who had "attacked" a lot of women in cl, virtually I mean. You don't want to let someone liek this get contact info. on you.
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