dilger
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2012-02-09 21-25-17
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Love is not luck. Love, like "luck", is the meeting of preparation and opportunity. Preparation is your part -- in order to be someone that is attractive and appealing, you need to have interests that you enjoy sharing with other people, and you have to like YOURSELF. That means stop feeling sorry for yourself. People who walk around moaning about their "bad luck" are boring and are avoided like the plague. Secondly, I tend to disagree with those who are urging you to go to college -- frankly, if your post is any indication, your written English skills would be a very real barrier to success. I do not say this meanly -- but, truly, your spelling, punctuation and grammar need a great deal of work, which may be the case if you only considered high school as an opportunity to socialize. If you are considering college, you might want to start with community college first. Where do you work? Do you have friends at work you can get out with? Think about where the kind of girl you are interested in might hang out -- (probably not a bar)-- and start hanging out there. Since you like backbacking, join an outdoor adventure club to meet other young people who enjoy the same sort of things. Consider a church singles group -- you don't have to actually join the church if you don't want to, but many large churches have active groups that go on trips, attend plays, go to museums, etc., etc. Basiy, get your ass out there and get some face time with people.
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