After you orgasm, do you feel tingly I guess if I'm still questioning how it feels I still haven't had one yet...I mean, really do you just KNOW?

Yes you know, not really tingly

Yes, you'll just know. Its a great natural high.

WTF is wrong with me?? I'm seriously starting to believe somrthing is wrong with my clitoris. I can't even get off with a vibrator. What the hell am I to do?!

be an uptight beyotch!

Get really baked and get your cha cha ate out

OOOH! That sounds good!

been there, done that, didn't work

You need a skilled tongue Go to goodvibrations and talk to them - I suggest the bullet vibe. Are you stressed? Its mostly mental you know.

How long did you use the vibrator, as in how long was the masturbating session? It can take awhile if you're tense.

about x minutes or so things were starting to get a bit numb, actually. It was feeling good but just not over the top.

From my experience, I would encourage you to keep going. Use lube if you are not. One of those massagers with heat helps, because the heat with get the blood flowing to the clitoris. As well, maybe try get some visual stimulation, pictures of attractive naked people. Also, imagining someone that you wouldn't mind having sex with might help. Give yourself more time.

I disagree. That doesn't help me. Vibrator works best here.

ew. in our house, cha cha means

Nothing, you might need a different type You might just need a different type of stimulation to get you going, for some it's all about the gspot, some clitoral and some anal, etc.....

Nothing is wrong with you! Just so you know there is a nerve at the base of the spine that when massaged along with clitoral or gspot stimulation helps with orgasm. Lots of women do not have orgasms...it is not unusual. You must find what you like. You must be able to pass this info on to your partner. Take your time and remember if you get to a point where you feel you have to stop...KEEP GOING some women find orgasm uncomfortable at first and they want to stop before they reach it. If this is you take a deep breath and whatever you do DO NOT STOP.

Yes, take a deep breath, then release... that helps in orgasming.

It's hard to pass on info to my partner when I'm not sure what to tell him! I mean, i can and do certainly tell him when things feel good, and tell him not to stop what he's doing. I think I've come very close to orgasming through oral sex, but it's usually after a long time and he starts getting tired and the quality goes down. There have been times where it feels almost overwhelming and I can't take the feeling and I change what I'm doing or position because it's just too much. How can I get myself to stay or keep going when it's like that? I don't want to be an orgasmless woman. I want me some too!

Have your partner alternate if the feeling is overwhelming. I'm one of those women who can't orgasm if you just go for the clit and stay on it. It has to be on a bit, off a bit. I agree with NPG, a good finger f**k accompanied by rhytmic clit stimulation will get me off every damn time. Throw in a some anal stim and I'm a goner in under x minutes.

try the vibrator anal seriously....my first orgasm was from anal sex

Yeah, actually... :)

yeah, I know.

I fuckin sure as hell know when I don't!

And my sinuses become clear

let me go do it and analyzse it I will report in x

the grossest mental picture. ever.

yah...do not neg her she is russian, this is a typical russian metality, all russian women love to analyze vibrators :)

whatever. She grossed me out. I'll neg her

Go have a Orgasm!