You should try the kink forum.

yeah. This is a place where people have relationships with people -- not appliances.

Oh, come on! Toys are fun, and lots of people in LTRs use them. I think this is a great place to ask that question. Although I have no experience with that particular toy to give my opinion on it, it sure has a clever name :)

Whatever. Battery operated appliances. Dress up costumes. 3-somes. Cuckholdry. Boyfriends/girlfriends on the side. It's all good. Right?

Wow, you're ignorance is just beyond belief. Another Dr. of Physiology Laura idiot huh?

No. Just someone who gets off on loving a real person in a real way.

i feel bad for your wife i'm sure she'd love some toys, but knows you wouldn't approve.

I'm a woman. And my husband and I are totally organic and happy with it. If you need a DD duracell assist go for it.

oops, sorry for ing you a dude. no need to make people who choose to use toys feel bad.

No problem. If that's what it takes go for it.

1st time in here need help notice your handle name took a interest in your ad could i ask u 4 help in the system here.

hi there im new here but just wanted to say you have an amazing body

curious hi ever been on a sybian??

So using sex toys is somehow not loving someone in a real way? So I guess anything but penis in vagina is loving someone in a fake way?

Listen. If you need more than each other to enjoy each other, go for it.

You're jump makes no rational sense It's like you're saying "First sex toys, then affairs, then Jesus get's pregnant with Satan's baby!" Sex toys doesn't mean you need "More than each other." It's ed enjoying sex. But then again, you're probably one of these idiots who views porn as "cheating" and anything other than missionary position "sodomy". If you're so ignorant that you cant see past that, maybe you need to sit in your boring little pigeon hole definition of what sex is and let others do whatever they feel like.

Listen if you or anyone else needs more than your loved one to get off......... then go for it.

Just a comment or two Thank god this is an anonymous forum . . . ! I was extremely shy about using one at first, when my husband first suggested it. In fact, I felt like it was almost an "insult" to him. His idea, though, so he wasn't insulted in the least. But, as time has marched on, Mother Nature (the bitch) has begun to take her toll, and biology is sometimes not our friend. We find that the timing sometimes works a little better for us these days if there's a little "warm up" beforehand, and, frankly, he teases me that he can enjoy my multiple orgasms without him having to do all the work! We don't use one every time, but every once in a while, yeah, it's fun. It doesn't take the place of some sort of desperate, lonely sex -- it's just a little added *zing* when wanted. It does't take the place of sex (except when he's not here!), but it certainly takes it in a different direction!

good for you. ; ) Sometimes I just get annoyed at the state of sex in our society and have to crank about it a bit. Nothing personal folks.

What about using the finger stogie! is that nooooo tooo? how about tongues bad bad right? go jerk off buddy, you must be backed up and you know what i mean.

Hey ozie. I'm a woman. And I've enjoyed a lot of varied kind of sex. It just seems sad to me that people can't enjoy another person -- the one they love -- as a beautiful sexual person -- without tarting them up as a Jedi knight or as a pole dancing porn queen in order to get the spit up to have sex.... Listen if it takes battery operated appliances or a closet full of costumes to make you desire one another then go for it. Sorry . just seems sad to me.

Not as sad as being extremely judgemental If you can't enjoy life without feeling a compelling need to disparage other people, attack people's choices, and put down anything you feel is different...well, to quote you, that "just seems sad to me." What a dreadful way to go through life.

Do what you want to do I really don't care. I'm just making an observation -- as are you.

No, you are being judgemental An observation would be "some people employ costumes, devices, or role play in their sexual activity." You said: "It just seems sad to me that people can't enjoy another person -- the one they love -- as a beautiful sexual person -- without tarting them up as a Jedi knight or as a pole dancing porn queen in order to get the spit up to have sex.... Listen if it takes battery operated appliances or a closet full of costumes to make you desire one another then go for it. Sorry . just seems sad to me." That is a judgment. I could suggest a few lines from Matthew and the Proverbs for you, but I doubt from your postings you care much for those writings or that book. Have your pride in your moral authority to judge and proclaim such judgments as loudly as you can....I'll keep to myself my feelings as to where that path will lead you.

*offers stogie herbal tea* poor thing, we've got a married man posting multiple times trying to cheat, a cuckold defending him, a couple looking for an extra bed filler to keep them warm in alaska, a gentleman wanting to text his way to a swinging lifestyle, and recommendations about a high price vibrator.....Just got to be too much at once, didn't it?

*takes a soothing sip* Thanks ; ) What IS this world coming to?

Don't question it, stogie. Just invest in batteries and paternity testing companies. :)

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using toys is not any different than using mouth