The Ex just left from picking up for night. Came in and decided he just didn't want to leave. Grabbing me and trying to hug on me. Makes me so angry that I gave him an inch by even letting him come here to get them instead of meeting me somewhere and then he pulls this crap. 40 minutes of trying to get him to just leave....then as he finally exits he turns around and tells me his electric bill is 700 and water bill is 400 and what am I going to do to help him with hit??? WTF??? And followed that with "can you come over tomorrow and help me clean the house?" What does he think I am, his f'in maid. Reality is hitting him finally what life takes....he never had to see it before.

sounds like you need to set some clear boundaries. He was totally out of line trying to have any physical contact with you. As far as the other stuff you mentioned - makes him look like a total loser.

I tried to set boundaries... I had had him banned from the community but he said he was already out could he pick them up here as he was nearby....I caved against my gut feeling and he pulled this. Part of me feels sorry for him and wants to give him a sympathy hug but it just will not do him any good. In the long term it will just put some idea of hope in his mind. It isn't me he wants, he wants to have me back to take care of everything for him. And I am tired of hearing him tell me he will never love another woman....I sure hope that isn't true. The sooner he finds another the better we will all be.

maybe what happened is good then perhaps you have learned a lesson not to give into him against your inner gut feelings. Hey, diane, don't feel sorry for him. Just focus on yourself. Get yourself to the place you need to be. I am sure that he will be OK one day.

dont let him in - make him wait on the porch exes feel entitlement to the house even though they are gone. dont worry - you doing the right thing baby - Ill be over later

you'll be over later??? give Diane a break

she knows im kidding - see previous log about ldr

OK - sorry dude

He has the house...this is My OWN apartment He has never lived here...his sense of entitlement is all about ownership of me.

Yeah - Its still there though obviously if he is trying to hug you. I won't step on the carpet in my ex's house - even if invited, and its not our marital house. Make the switch in a neutral place - its better for the too

I believe you are right.... Gonna enforce my original boundaries more....

OHHHH I can't wait.... Hurry on over!!

Ok, shouldn't take any more than x or x days

LOL.....Bet Airtran could get you here and home in the same day!

Sweety, I live in the middle of nowhere - I am probably x miles from an airport that Airtrans flies. I would have to be very deliberate to get anywhere. Especially right now since I can't seem to find my car keys. I need to go get some dinner, but no keys!

LOL!!!! I grew up in the sticks but was still only like a half hour to a major airport.....Sucks about losing your keys to go get dinner. You don't cook?

I am so low on food because of the impending vacation that I am leaving for tomorrow. i just wanted to get something from the grocery to make quick - looks like TV dinner night.

Enjoy......I am skipping dinner...no one here to cook for so why bother.

Well if I ever find my keys, I will be going out for the night - guess it doesnt help I am sitting here huh

ha ha, psycho bitch for it

All were Pleasant today and you showed up to be a freakin asshole....

Well at least I'm not a fucking drama queen who feels the need to tell her whole life story on the fucking internet! Geez lady get a clue. We really don't care.

if you're carebear, you need to tell everyone your life story. And by the way you sound, you could very well be carebear.

Fucking Careslut tells everything sucking some shit covered cock right now. Just like Diane! Likes to suck shit covered cocks!

That is disgusting!

But you know you like it

Never tried it why don't you tell me what your experience with it was like.....

I'll let you suck my dick right after I get done You know you did it. You said so yourself. Do I have to provide the link? That shit doesn't go away! It will always be on here stupid ass.

SARCASM apparently wasn't clear yesterday! Or you're too dense to pick up on it.