smotherman
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2011-09-04 16-07-51
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This my be old-fashioned but My wife is a first generation immigrant from India. I am an American of European descent. When we meet in college, she let me understand that she was not going to introduce a series of boyfriends to her parents. She would only introduce her fiance. I had no problem with that because I had already proposed. You could wait until her proposes to introduce him. Also, you could she if he wants to learn Chinese (yes, I understand how hard that is to do). My father taught his Vietnamese wifeto speak English and I feel that they have very good communication skills. This is assuming that you speak Chinese. Also, have you had these two converstations? one, with your parents seeking their advice on the best qualities for a husband. In this conversation you could find whether they expect you to marry only another Chinese person. Two, with you boyfriend about children, what religion to raise the children in, marriage, spending and saving habits, financial goals, his career aspects, on how to resolve conflicts between the two of you? You know you basic conversations that should take place before marriage? Just somethings to think over. Best of Luck
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